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      More than words can say

      Hello everybody,

      This is my first post on the blogathon in nearly a week. Not the way it was supposed to be but with good reason. Unfortunately, last week my wife's aunt passed away after suffering for several months with cancer and we were obviously pre-occupied with the funeral and its arrangements.

      It would be inappropriate to reflect on the experience at length here but one thing that struck me about it all was the power we have to communicate with much more than words. I interacted with many relatives and family friends, many of whom still, even after all these years, assume my Turkish is not that good. However, words were not needed as the sorrow, sympathy and grief was etched on everyone's faces for all to see.

      And that got me thinking - communication may be easier with language but it is often more powerful without it...

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      CoffeeAddict's picture
      CoffeeAddict
      Submitted on 22 February, 2011 - 08:19

      I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know from experience that there is very little that can or needs to be said at times like that. It is enough that you are present, quietly offering your support. I lost my own mother to lung cancer. She was so young, only 52 when she died. She didn't get to see my youngest child born. It is too terrible for words.

      God help you and your family in the days and weeks to come.

      CoffeeAddict

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      merveoflaz
      Submitted on 22 February, 2011 - 09:43

      Dear Dave,

      First, I'd like to say sorry for your loss. Next, you are right. Sometimes expressing yourself without words tell more than words.

      solmaz21's picture
      solmaz21
      Submitted on 22 February, 2011 - 10:28

      Dear Dave,

      I'd like to express my condelences for your aunt. I agree with your words and can't write more..

      Best,

      Osman

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      Aisha Ertugrul
      Submitted on 22 February, 2011 - 12:52

      I am very sorry to hear of your loss. It seems to be everywhere. Friends and family, joy in each day must be our priority.

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      DaveDodgson
      Submitted on 28 February, 2011 - 20:07

      Thank you all for your kind comments and words. :)